About beauty: were you born ugly?

What cards did you get?

Everyone is born with some preconditions, you can be born to rich family with good genes and grow into a naturaly handsome guy or a beautiful girl. Other pepople are born without money and without any preconditions to natural beauty. Other people are born to die because of poverty and hunger but that's not the topic now.

Quite often you can meet people who judge beauty on scale from 1 to 10.

Some people tend to judge themselves lower and some higher but beauty is a thing of magic and there are things you can do about yourself to actually move higher on the scale.

Everyone wants to date number ten

I have heard many girls saying that they are not into the pretty guy or the bad boy guy... I have never seen a girl who would not lie by saying this. Guys are more honest, they openly admit that they would do Megan Fox any time.

So everyone wants the pretty guy or the pretty girl but the thing is that if you want 10 and you are 5 than you are in trouble (in case that you are actually able to move yourself close enough to any 10). The thing is that no 10 was born 10 and no 10 looks like 10 in the morning after friday night.

You may think that those people are stupid, don't understand mathematic and don't speak Klingon but they do work on their bodies, they spend time in gym, they watch their figures, they spend time infront of the mirror (also they might have spent some money on surgery). My point is that they work on themselves and you can't expect to get them if you don't work on yourself and if you have nothing to offer (like $10 million on your bank account).

Clothing matters

I understand that people want to wear comfortable clothes that should be universal for the whole year... especially guys do. Problem is that clothing matters and that how you dress shows your style. If you don't care about your clothing you are sending the signal that you won't care for the girl too. Also having no style means that you are boring.

Important thing that is good to realize is that having style means being different than others. Being different here means having self esteem and not being the gray mouse. Style will get you plus points and attention of the other sex. If you are not different then people will be indifferent about you.

Summary

Do you want pretty girls/boys? Then work on yourself. Get style and watch yourself. Preparation is about yourself, not about her or him. Get out of you comfortable zone and find out that the life out there is exciting.