The thing about bad boys

A lot of guys probably know this problem. I have heard that there are two types of guys: alpha males and beta males. Alpha is supposed to be the strong one, charismatic one and confident one. Beta is careful intelligent man that does not like any confrontation. We all went through high school and those of us who were not alpha males like me could see the attention that the bad boys were getting. They were stupid and all they needed to do was to just smile at the right time. I remember that was quite frustrating.

If you are a girl reading this article and bad boys don't work on you then don't worry because I believe you, I know that you are different :)

The bad thing about bad boys

Girls do like the bad boys (to be honest bad girls are quite sexy too). The problem is that when a girl gets a bad boy she is often surprised that bad boys treat others badly. I guess that they feel power over girls and power corrupts in every form. Fortunately the girl has always some beta male to cry on his shoulder so she could recover to find another alpha male. Alpha males get the fame and beta males get the shame.

Are you an alpha or a beta?

I have read that bad girls have up to ten beta males to one alpha male that they sleep with. It's ok to be a friend and just a friend with a girl (beta males agree) but in my experience some girls do take advantage of bad boys... are you the one who makes her homework? Does she make yours too? Do you come always anytime she calls you? Can you even call her any time you want? Does she text you when she feels down? Is she there for you when you need her? 

For unconfident man (and I speak from own experience) it is difficult to not see a girl like a mighty mysterious being... and then it's easy to be nervous around beautiful women. And if you are nervous then believe me that they can smell it (yea, like animals smell fear). It's also hard to say NO to such a beautiful being and refuse her anything (yea, sure I would love to spend the weekend moving your furniture for free).

If you know these issues, you are beta, if not you are alpha. And of course I am aware that most of the people have something from both... but bipolar world is easier here.

The good thing about bad boys

The bad boys are usually strong and charismatic; they can be good leaders and loyal friends. Once they stop being so bad they can become awesome. The bad thing about beta males is that they can have quite a number of issues and complexes which are not fun to deal with. Alpha males are confident and satisfied with themselves which makes them happier as well as people around them.

No one wants to be the loser and no one wants to be with the loser.

Are really bad boys bad?

I guess one would think that I have some personal issues about alpha males. I was certainly growing up through my teenage years as a beta male, not handsome, not strong, not funny and too intelligent for my own good.

On the other hand my wish for the next year is to become more alpha and less beta. I found it in myself to adapt features of a bad boy (although I hope I am not bad to people).

The logic of the world

I guess alpha males are usually just born and one can't become one of them but then certainly I am not the first one who wants to become an alpha. I think I am confident, I am dominant and I am getting strong mentally (unfortunately not physically but hopefully I will work on that too soon).

The logic of the world is simple, unconfident man has hard time to get laid simply because he has no balls to try. There are no answers for questions not asked and it is better to try and fail then stay stupid. And if you don't ask her then the answer is always NO. It is easier to go with the flow then fight against it and the society often wants you to just follow the rules but being a bad boy is about not following them. You won't be confident if you won't learn how to bend rules. Man's lack of confidence equals girls lack of interest.

Also ladies, guys are sick of hearing you ask where all the nice guys are. They are in the friend zone where you left them.